Browsing Tag

Choices We Make

— Life —

pin it

I discovered the benefits of being alone as a young child. Oddly I often misbehaved so I would be sent to my room. On the second floor of our Cape Cod style home I had the most beautiful view of a tall Mimosa tree with the most beautiful pink flowers and the largest lilac bush I’ve ever seen. I’d open the window and close my eyes while breathing in that heavenly lavender and my little world was perfect. Lying on my bed with a notebook and pen or reading the latest Nancy Drew mystery, uninterrupted, was pure bliss.

People in my life often assumed I was lonely and sad. My answer has always been, “Have you ever been in a room, crowded with people, yet felt so alone?

Continue Reading

— Life —

21-YEAR-OLD BRENDA AND 33-YEAR-OLD PHILIP. PHOTOGRAPHS ©BRENDA COFFEE, 2017
pin it

One of the things I like best about reading blogs is getting an insight into how other women live; a sense of who they are, what troubles them and what lights up their world. Blogs have also underscored something I already knew… how out of the mainstream my life has been.

I’ve also realized, for the most part, the life we have is the life we choose.

Continue Reading